{"id":176658939,"date":"2014-03-09T23:55:26","date_gmt":"2014-03-09T15:55:26","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/adriennemichetti.com\/truth\/?p=176658939"},"modified":"2014-03-09T23:55:26","modified_gmt":"2014-03-09T15:55:26","slug":"nobody-told-me","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/adriennemichetti.com\/truth\/2014\/03\/09\/nobody-told-me\/","title":{"rendered":"Nobody told me"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>It&#8217;s Sunday night, 11:09pm.<\/p>\n<p>I am sipping champagne (real champagne) and listening to <a href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Robert_Glasper\" target=\"_blank\">Robert Glasper<\/a> Experiment.<\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" src=\"\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/BqkVeytyifM\" height=\"315\" width=\"560\" allowfullscreen=\"\" frameborder=\"0\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p><em>(I love that his band is called &#8220;experiment.&#8221; More things should have this label. More people should be honest about what they are doing. Do we ever really know?)<\/em><\/p>\n<p>I am listening to Robert Glasper because I have a ticket (just me) to his show tomorrow at Esplanade as part of the (last, ever) <a href=\"http:\/\/www.sistic.com.sg\/events\/robert0314\" target=\"_blank\">Mosaic Music Festival<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>I saw Robert Glasper perform with Vijay Iyer (another favorite) at NYU&#8217;s Skirball Center in 2011 &#8212; <a href=\"http:\/\/blogs.villagevoice.com\/music\/2011\/04\/robert_glasper_vijay_iyer_nyu_live_review.php\" target=\"_blank\">nearly 3 years ago to the day<\/a> &#8212; when I was still able to get student discounts and rock up 5 min before the show began because I lived 4 blocks away.<\/p>\n<p>Nobody told me that while living in NYC, I would have access to up-and-coming artists and I wouldn&#8217;t even know they were up-and-coming.<\/p>\n<p>Nobody told me that living in NYC, I would have music and artistry and design and creativity around me in the f*cking air&#8230;. that just sitting on a park bench in Washington Square Park for 5 minutes, I would absorb more innovative and expressive material than I would if I dedicated 3 hours of my life to such a thing in any other city in the world.<\/p>\n<p>Nobody told me that I would find musicality in the rhythms of the street.<\/p>\n<p>Nobody told me that I would have access to top-notch live professional performers simply for having a student ID that got me crazy-ass discounts all over the 5 boroughs.<\/p>\n<p>Nobody told me that I would become addicted to seeing these top-notch live professional performers as a result of my crazy-ass discounts.<\/p>\n<p>Nobody told me that I would never again find the calibre, energy, and ambiance created by these top-notch live professional performers outside of NYC.<\/p>\n<p>This is a sin.<\/p>\n<p>Nobody told me that I would\u00a0<em>miss<\/em> this.<\/p>\n<p>Nobody told me that these kinds of performers, <a href=\"http:\/\/youtu.be\/LMDSm3hjLb4\" target=\"_blank\">this kind of music<\/a>, would mess with my brain chemistry in ways unchallenged since 1993&#8230;. \u00a0those days when I first discovered experimental jazz, funk, soul, neo-soul, and house&#8230; when I was discovering names like Maceo Parker, Brad Mehldau, Medeski Martin and Wood, Roy Ayers, Nuyorican Soul, MosDef, Roy Hargrove, and The Roots.<\/p>\n<p>Nobody told me that my musical brain chemistry would be altered again, because of NYC.<\/p>\n<p>Nobody told me that I would find myself in Asia, nostalgic for something I had never experienced a few years prior.<\/p>\n<p>Nobody told me that I would again be able to afford drinking champagne, like I could when I lived &#8220;the fine expat life&#8221; in Qatar and Vietnam.<\/p>\n<p>Nobody told me that I would, in fact, become accustomed to drinking champagne quite regularly (despite high alcohol taxes).<\/p>\n<p>Nobody told me that I would be so privileged.<\/p>\n<p>Nobody told me that in Singapore I would have access to many &#8212; though not all &#8212; of the same performers I had seen in NYC, for various reasons, these performers come through a circuit of AustralAsia.<\/p>\n<p>Nobody told me that I would see these performers in Singapore, in <a href=\"http:\/\/www.esplanade.com\/index.jsp\" target=\"_blank\">state-of-the-art venues<\/a>, for a fraction of what I would pay in NYC.<\/p>\n<p>Nobody told me I would <em>still<\/em> miss the experience of having seen them perform in NYC.<\/p>\n<p>Nobody told me that I would forever be nostalgic for NYC, because no experience compares to it. Ever.<\/p>\n<p>Nobody told me that living in NYC would change me forever.<\/p>\n<p>&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8211;<\/p>\n<p>It has changed me. Forever.<\/p>\n<p>And I have come to accept the fact (<em>I think&#8230;<\/em> ) that I will always struggle with\u00a0<em>not\u00a0<\/em>living there. That always, a piece of me will wish I were there. That this will never go away. That nowhere else will be the same as NYC, especially when it comes to music and art.<\/p>\n<p>It is okay. A piece of me will always be there.<\/p>\n<p>And that is also okay.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m making peace with that piece.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It&#8217;s Sunday night, 11:09pm. I am sipping champagne (real champagne) and listening to Robert Glasper Experiment. (I love that his band is called &#8220;experiment.&#8221; More things should have this label. 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