{"id":176658881,"date":"2013-05-07T22:28:48","date_gmt":"2013-05-07T14:28:48","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/adriennemichetti.com\/truth\/?p=176658881"},"modified":"2013-05-07T22:28:48","modified_gmt":"2013-05-07T14:28:48","slug":"miscommunication","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/adriennemichetti.com\/truth\/2013\/05\/07\/miscommunication\/","title":{"rendered":"Miscommunication"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I messed up today.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Several<\/strong> times.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m not sure why so many times in one day (!), but&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>I didn&#8217;t read properly. I didn&#8217;t think properly. I replied to people too quickly, off-the-cuff. I was trying to do a million things at once &#8212; and wanted to do all of them well. Of course what happened is that I did <strong>none<\/strong> of them well and hurt a few people in the process.<\/p>\n<p>I should have read <a href=\"http:\/\/adriennemichetti.com\/truth\/2013\/03\/10\/beautiful-humans-with-crap-communication-lets\/\">my own post<\/a> from a while back.<\/p>\n<p>I should have responded rather than reacted.<\/p>\n<p>I should have breathed more and drank more water.<\/p>\n<p>I am grateful that people are kind. I am grateful that I have developed relationships solid enough that these nippy bits don&#8217;t mean &#8220;it&#8217;s all over&#8221; or that I&#8217;m not worthy of being a friend or collaborator and that people haven&#8217;t given up on me. I am grateful that people are <strong>compassionate<\/strong> and <strong>communicative<\/strong>. I am grateful that people tell me when I&#8217;ve messed up, and I&#8217;m even more grateful when they do so with <strong>grace<\/strong> and <strong>humour<\/strong>. This is how I learn.<\/p>\n<p>I am an <strong>unfinished<\/strong> human being and I&#8217;m still learning. I&#8217;m getting better (I used to make these mistakes way more often!) but still learning.<\/p>\n<p>Thank you.<\/p>\n<p>&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>The thing about being a human being that is both scary and beautiful is that we will <strong>never<\/strong> be &#8220;finished.&#8221;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I messed up today. Several times. I&#8217;m not sure why so many times in one day (!), but&#8230; I didn&#8217;t read properly. I didn&#8217;t think properly. I replied to people too quickly, off-the-cuff. I was trying to do a million &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/adriennemichetti.com\/truth\/2013\/05\/07\/miscommunication\/\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"Miscommunication. (I'm still #learning)","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[1],"tags":[79,479,484],"class_list":["post-176658881","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized","tag-communication","tag-learning","tag-mistakes"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p3rl4S-bXf2N","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/adriennemichetti.com\/truth\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/176658881","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/adriennemichetti.com\/truth\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/adriennemichetti.com\/truth\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/adriennemichetti.com\/truth\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/adriennemichetti.com\/truth\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=176658881"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/adriennemichetti.com\/truth\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/176658881\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":176658882,"href":"https:\/\/adriennemichetti.com\/truth\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/176658881\/revisions\/176658882"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/adriennemichetti.com\/truth\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=176658881"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/adriennemichetti.com\/truth\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=176658881"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/adriennemichetti.com\/truth\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=176658881"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}